a gentler, slower way of life for the neurodivergent woman
Late diagnosis ADHD in women over 40, even over fifty, is becoming almost a trend online. Ditto for autism. Has to be people mistaking trauma issues for neurodivergence, right? Perhaps in a fraction of the cases. But the truth is, both ADHD and autism in girls and women looks different to what they do in … Read more
What are the signs of autism in older women? A bit of my story, plus what to look for if you’re over 50 and suspect your brain is neurodivergent. I stared at my computer screen, my eyes opening with every new female autistic trait the YouTuber shared. By the time the video finished, I was … Read more
Wisdom in midlife continues to grow as we age. These ten nuggets, which come from my perspective as a super-late-diagnosed autistic woman, might just transform your life and bring you more fulfillment than ever. The story. “Emily, he read your letter.” Margaret’s tone on the other end of the line was ominous. “He said that … Read more
Many neurodivergent women begin losing lifelong friends once they hit their forties. Inevitable, or preventable? My story, and my encouragement to help you maintain the relationships most important to you. The story. It was my birthday, and my inbox was devoid of an expected email. My friend V had unfailingly for the last umpteen years … Read more
A neurodivergent marriage doesn’t always feel like a match made in heaven. Here are six things my husband and I have done to overcome relationship challenges. The story. I wanted to die. No, I just wish I’d never been born. No, that wasn’t true, either. I wanted out of my marriage. This had been a … Read more
Neurodivergent women and relationships can produce a complicated brew. Here are nine strategies to make them a fulfilling part of a simple life. The story. My eyebrows rose as I listened to the voicemail. Why was Libby calling me? I hadn’t heard from her in a year or two. But out here in the middle … Read more