10 Nuggets of Wisdom That Can Transform Your Life

Wisdom in midlife continues to grow as we age. These ten nuggets, which come from my perspective as a super-late-diagnosed autistic woman, might just transform your life and bring you more fulfillment than ever. The story. “Emily, he read your letter.” Margaret’s tone on the other end of the line was ominous. “He said that … Read more

4 Reasons Midlife Autistic Women Lose Friends; the 5 Best Things That Help

Many neurodivergent women begin losing lifelong friends once they hit their forties. Inevitable, or preventable? My story, and my encouragement to help you maintain the relationships most important to you. The story. It was my birthday, and my inbox was devoid of an expected email. My friend V had unfailingly for the last umpteen years … Read more

My Six Best Tips for a Thriving Neurodivergent Marriage

A neurodivergent marriage doesn’t always feel like a match made in heaven. Here are six things my husband and I have done to overcome relationship challenges. The story. I wanted to die. No, I just wish I’d never been born. No, that wasn’t true, either. I wanted out of my marriage. This had been a … Read more

The Neurodivergent Woman, Relationships, and the Simple Life: 9 Strategies to Help Them All Mesh

Neurodivergent women and relationships can produce a complicated brew. Here are nine strategies to make them a fulfilling part of a simple life. The story. My eyebrows rose as I listened to the voicemail. Why was Libby calling me? I hadn’t heard from her in a year or two. But out here in the middle … Read more

Five Reasons “Simple” Doesn’t Always Mean “Cheap”

Simple living and cheap living aren’t always the same… especially for us neurodivergent women. Read on to find out why spending money is sometimes the better choice. The story. I looked around the space, dismay and frustration playing tug-of-war inside my chest. Something was missing, but what? I thought back to all the videos of … Read more

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