a gentler, slower way of life for the neurodivergent woman
Looking for ideas for sensory-friendly social activities for autistic adults? Here are some that are low-demand and often interest-based and structured, as well. The story. The phone rang, and as usual when it rang, I picked it up with great reluctance. It was a landline, without caller I.D. The caller was my friend, T. One … Read more
Neurodiversity-affirming family rhythms are vital for any sized family with even one neurodivergent member. Read on for six ideas to help everyone in the family feel valued. The story. “Time to eat!” I called to my ten-year-old son as I set a bowl of smoothie on the table. He ran out of his bedroom and … Read more
Many neurodivergent women begin losing lifelong friends once they hit their forties. Inevitable, or preventable? My story, and my encouragement to help you maintain the relationships most important to you. The story. It was my birthday, and my inbox was devoid of an expected email. My friend V had unfailingly for the last umpteen years … Read more
Effective communication with neurodivergent people, especially neurodivergent partners and friends, helps to make life simpler all around, but it can be tricky. Read on for 8 ideas to improve the chances of everyone being better understood. The story. I bristled, then rounded on my husband. “The sky is not pink with purple polka dots! How … Read more
Personal space in a tiny house is important, especially for neurodivergent families. Here are 5 tips that have worked for my family, helping us to maintain good relationships. The story. With a sense of awe, my husband and I stepped into our nearly-constructed earth-sheltered house. My mind immediately began to picture the walls and rooms … Read more
Quality over quantity in friendships is essential for both neurodivergent and menopausal women. Here are some ideas to help you gain and maintain the connections you crave. The story. “This was good, thank you.” My friend beamed at me as she complimented the simple meal I’d fixed for her in my home. I returned the … Read more