a gentler, slower way of life for the neurodivergent woman
Many neurodivergent women begin losing lifelong friends once they hit their forties. Inevitable, or preventable? My story, and my encouragement to help you maintain the relationships most important to you. The story. It was my birthday, and my inbox was devoid of an expected email. My friend V had unfailingly for the last umpteen years … Read more
Effective communication with neurodivergent people, especially neurodivergent partners and friends, helps to make life simpler all around, but it can be tricky. Read on for 8 ideas to improve the chances of everyone being better understood. The story. I bristled, then rounded on my husband. “The sky is not pink with purple polka dots! How … Read more
Personal space in a tiny house is important, especially for neurodivergent families. Here are 5 tips that have worked for my family, helping us to maintain good relationships. The story. With a sense of awe, my husband and I stepped into our nearly-constructed earth-sheltered house. My mind immediately began to picture the walls and rooms … Read more
Quality over quantity in friendships is essential for both neurodivergent and menopausal women. Here are some ideas to help you gain and maintain the connections you crave. The story. “This was good, thank you.” My friend beamed at me as she complimented the simple meal I’d fixed for her in my home. I returned the … Read more
Surviving large family events is a delicate dance for neurodivergent adults and children alike. Following are 11 sensory overwhelm tips to help make holiday gatherings easier. The story. Closing the front door of my brother-in-law’s house behind me, I was a picture of calm. But what I really wanted to do was go running down … Read more
A neurodivergent marriage doesn’t always feel like a match made in heaven. Here are six things my husband and I have done to overcome relationship challenges. The story. I wanted to die. No, I just wish I’d never been born. No, that wasn’t true, either. I wanted out of my marriage. This had been a … Read more