Neurodiversity-Affirming Family Rhythms: How to Keep Your Home Running Smoothly

Neurodiversity-affirming family rhythms are vital for any sized family with even one neurodivergent member. Read on for six ideas to help everyone in the family feel valued. The story. “Time to eat!” I called to my ten-year-old son as I set a bowl of smoothie on the table. He ran out of his bedroom and … Read more

4 Reasons Midlife Autistic Women Lose Friends; the 5 Best Things That Help

Many neurodivergent women begin losing lifelong friends once they hit their forties. Inevitable, or preventable? My story, and my encouragement to help you maintain the relationships most important to you. The story. It was my birthday, and my inbox was devoid of an expected email. My friend V had unfailingly for the last umpteen years … Read more

When Words Fail: 8 Ideas for Communicating with Neurodivergent People

Effective communication with neurodivergent people, especially neurodivergent partners and friends, helps to make life simpler all around, but it can be tricky. Read on for 8 ideas to improve the chances of everyone being better understood. The story. I bristled, then rounded on my husband. “The sky is not pink with purple polka dots! How … Read more

Five Great Tips to Finding Privacy in a Tiny Home

Personal space in a tiny house is important, especially for neurodivergent families. Here are 5 tips that have worked for my family, helping us to maintain good relationships. The story. With a sense of awe, my husband and I stepped into our nearly-constructed earth-sheltered house. My mind immediately began to picture the walls and rooms … Read more

The Ultimate “Family Gathering Survival Guide” for Sensitive People

Surviving large family events is a delicate dance for neurodivergent adults and children alike. Following are 11 sensory overwhelm tips to help make holiday gatherings easier.  The story. Closing the front door of my brother-in-law’s house behind me, I was a picture of calm. But what I really wanted to do was go running down … Read more

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