The Perils and Benefits of Early Retirement from a Neurodivergent Perspective

Should neurodivergent couples retire early? A woman with AuDHD describes her and her husband’s precarious experience with early financial independence. The beginning: when we accidentally joined the F.I.R.E. movement. I think our son was four when I realized that I wouldn’t be able to take living in the city much longer. My husband (whom I … Read more

Beyond “Nesting”: 5 Tips for Curating a Home Sanctuary After 45

Neurodivergent women midlife are usually dealing with cumulative sensory overload. Life-changing tips on how to reduce it by turning your home into a sanctuary. The story. In horror, I watched as the ball bounced off the large glass vase on the single high shelf near the hallway between the kitchen and dining room. At least … Read more

Personal Hygiene on the Cheap: Ten Easy Ways to Save Hundreds

How to save money on personal hygiene is simpler than you might think. Read on for 10 ideas that can help you be more frugal… literally saving you hundreds of dollars per year. The story. The thick, slimy blob oozed from the bottle into the palm of my hand. My nose scrunched. That did not … Read more

6 Room Makeover Tips for the 45+ Neurodivergent Woman: How to Transform a Space Without Overwhelm

Many conventional room makeover tips can cause a neurodivergent brain to crash. Here’s how to transform a space without overwhelm in order to reach your goal of creating a simple home. The story. “Okay, okay, we’ll leave the tall bookcases where they are.” I didn’t bother trying to keep the irritation from my voice. My … Read more

Eight Great Money-Saving Tips That SUCK for Autistic Women… and What to Do Instead

There are tons of money-saving tips floating around. But they don’t work for everyone, especially autistic women. Eight of those tips, and what to do instead. The story. I stared at my computer screen. Frowned. I totally couldn’t recommend those “how to save money with kids” tips to neurodivergent women. What, was I crazy when … Read more